By Brian L. Schmidt
If you're looking for a way to cope with your stress which is making you feel emotionally and physically horrible, you should spend some time to find some way to make yourself feel better. Almost all the healthy ways to cope with stress require behavior modification. Let's see what methods there are to make you feel better while facing stress. Not all of them are right for you, you simply have to discover the one that helps you feel calm and under control.
One stress management approach is simply to avoid unnecessary stress. Not all stress may be averted, and it is not beneficial to avoid a circumstance that has to be addressed. You might be stunned, though, by the amount of stressors in your life that you may be able to get rid of.
Another stress management tactic is to change your situation. You should forewarn yourself about any stressful situation if you cannot avoid it. Find one thing you can change in order to confront the trouble in the future.
One more way to avoid stress is to acclimatize to the stressor. You might change yourself if you can't alter the stressor itself. By shifting your attitude and expectations, you may become accustomed to stressful situations and recover your sense of control.